Pamela Lee MEd

Antoine Lee MAMHC, MEd

Antoine is a graduate of Nyack Christian College with a Masters in Mental Health Counseling and a member of the American Counselors Association.
Antoine brings to the counseling setting a deep biblical knowledge, over 25 years of active church experience and is currently a prelicensed professional working out of the Private Practice of Miriam Quilan LCSW.

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Pamela Lee MEd

Pamela Lee MEd

Pamela has been in education for 25 years. She is currently an Assistant Principal at a high school in the South Bronx. For the last 25 years, she has worked side by side with her husband in pastoral marital counseling and mentoring women of all ages. Her inspirational life and passionate walk with God has given her the opportunity to teach and inspire people from all walks of life. She brings to coaching a deep love for the Bible and her passion to be used by God to help heal lives all over the world.

Miriam Quilan LCSW-R

Miriam Quilan LCSW-R

Miriam Quilan is a licensed Christian bi-lingual Spanish psychotherapist in New York City. With over 21 years of experience, she has for the last 19 years, worked in several mental health residential/outpatient agencies. Currently she is the program director for the Mentoring Latinas Program at Fordham University, facilitates a chemical recovery group for women in her church, mentors/coaches social workers, and women/teen groups as needed, in addition to her private practice.

Stuck in “Paradise”?

Some of us may remember an old Twilight Zone episode where the lead character,  a notoriously nasty criminal, died and ended up in a “heaven”, where every bet was won, every need was supplied and every attempt was successful. He felt extremely bored and complained to the “angel” about heaven’s accommodations. The angel replied to […]

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I Am Afraid.

One of my favorite authors wrote the following in describing what love can feel like, on an emotional level. “The following statement express the emotional reality at the foundation of long-term links: ‘I love you, and I’m afraid I will lose you. I’m afraid you’ll die. I’m afraid you will stop loving me. I need […]

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“What is it you want?” Nehemiah 2:4

Rear-View-Mirror-Sky

One of the greatest inventions known to man (I realize this is somewhat of an exaggeration) is the Global Positioning System. The only device that allows you the luxury of never being lost! We could be driving through some strange town in upstate New York or be in the deep south. We could be on the west coast of the U.S. or just running errands in Westchester county. As long as we have a GPS in the window we can  to where we want to be just as if we lived there for decades!

The primary reason a GPS works is that it answers the question, “Where are we?”, but this information is MEANINGLESS without answering the question, “Where do you want to go?” Of course the GPS knows our location way before our intentions are made known, but this information is useless without a goal. In other words, the GPS supplies where we are, but only we can supply where we want to be. I think that much of (more…)

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Marriage Partnership

In marriage we promise each other eternal partnership. For better. For worse. For richer. For poorer. In sickness and health. And so on and so on. At the time, I was not thinking about through menopause, career change, life changes, church change, character changes and so on and so on. I’ve had to redefine what […]

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Adult Children

Much has been written on raising small children, school age children and teens. Dealing with adult children however is where the need is for me and many in my age group. If God grants us longevity we will deal with our children as adults for many more years than we did with them as minors. […]

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Life and death……

Yesterday I read a short excerpt about a couple that lived through a hurricane. They thought they were going to die. They made plans in the event of their death. Surprisingly they survived. The death threatening experience gave them a new outlook on their relationship leaving behind a deep gratitude for each other. The author of the […]

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Antoine Lee MAMHC, MEd is a graduate of Nyack Christian College with a Masters in Mental Health Counseling as well as a Masters in Education. Currently he currently works at the Private Practice of Miriam Quilan LCSW and founded Mind Change LLC.